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What is love ?

In my opinion, love can not be described by words or measured because each person loves in a unique and special.

I have noticed that most of the time a person feels unloved because the other does not resemble his or her way of loving, and from here starts disappointments, frustrations and you will start comparing your relationship with all the others around.

My opinion is that love is not equivalent to powerful pride, revenge, betrayal.
I often hear people saying:

-I betrayed him, but I loved him.

When you love not trash, you do not betray the trust of the other because you want to protect your loved one from any harm.

Love is not measured in expensive gifts, or in the fact that the other meets certain needs.
Love is pure and eternal dwelling in the hearts of those who love and are loved.

On the other hand, I also disagree with those criteria in which love is described as always “pink”.
How can you get to know if you love or are loved if you do not go through heavy moments with the dear one?

We all stay when everything is good but when everything goes wrong, only those who love themselves stay in relationships and think that their love can overcome any obstacle.

Love means tears, smiles, happiness, sadness, love is emotion, vitality, life.

We are born of love and die in the name of love!

17 thoughts on “What is love ?

  1. Loved this – the first night I spent with Goldfinch, he told me about the five languages of love, which are along these lines
    TIME (spending time together)
    TOUCH (including making love)
    GIFTS
    COMPLIMENTS/PRAISE (you’re beautiful etc)
    ACTS OF SERVICE (baking a cake for someone etc)
    He told me that he had a previous long-term relationship that went wrong because for him TIME and TOUCH were love…but for her GIFTS and COMPLIMENTS were. I was grateful to understand him and where he was coming from. I realized that naturally, I show love with ACTS OF SERVICE and GIFTS but love to receive TIME and TOUCH. So I made sure that I gave him plenty of TIME and TOUCH too.

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  2. Thanks for sharing!.. a world without love would be a bleak world indeed!… πŸ™‚

    β€œTrue love doesn’t happen right away; it’s an ever-growing process. It develops after you’ve gone through many ups and downs, when you’ve suffered together, cried together, laughed together, loved together.” Ricardo Montalban

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